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Jan. 8th, 2026 09:34 pm
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So, we did not stay in a hotel either before or after our trip.

With the horrible blizzard-type weather and white-out conditions on the road, we needed to leave here at 1:30am. Neither of us got hardly more than three hours of sleep because, you know, our bodies and brains are not used to going to sleep at 7pm. But it was an alright journey, because although conditions were grim, there was no one else on the road at that time except for the snowplows we'd see every so often, or the odd trucker.

We made it to the airport while it was still quiet and sparsely populated. I marveled at the encampments of people sleeping on the floor; the Minneapolis airport is very sleeper friendly and even goes around distributing mats! I didn't know that. We got Dunkin' for breakfast and wandered around looking into some of the shops that were open before departing for our 7am flight, which was quiet and uneventful. I think I managed to fall asleep for an hour or so, in the middle of Parasite. (I'd seen it already anyway.)

We had a nice layover in Seattle, which we used to poke around in more shops and have a meal. There were some live performers in the Seattle airport that were nice to listen to, as well. Our second flight was a mere 38 minutes; I barely had time to knock back my complimentary boxed water.

My parents were of course thrilled to receive us in Pullman. We stopped for a meal on the way to my parents' house, where the dogs and horse were equally as thrilled to see us. Once we were settled, all we really did was sit around. I know we must have eaten dinner at some point but I have no idea when or where, whether we went back out or ate at home. I was so tired that I slept through most of whatever movie they had put on.

The following day, my step dad showed us his workshop, and then took us out and about. We hit this place that is an old warehouse hangar turned massive multi-winged antique shop, where we had a lot of fun sifting through treasures. Blair found a Norse Viking sunstone ring that she really liked, and I snuck back there and purchased it after I had let everyone else wander significantly ahead. I look forward to gifting it to her on Valentine's Day. <3

After that, we had some really awesome pizza, then visited my mom at work. She works at Hobby Lobby, and while I'm not a huge fan of the company, she does get a pretty solid discount, so we picked up a few things I'd been needing for the cake I'm going to make and decorate for Blair's birthday. When we got home, my step dad played some Poker and Blackjack with Blair and I.

That night, my mom had a bit of a breakdown over having lost her wedding ring. We looked everywhere, inside and out, until she figured she must have lost it at work, which was already closed. She had to go back with my step dad in the morning at like 5:30am, when her boss would be there, to go look for it. Luckily she found it in the break room, and all was well.

The next day we played some billiards in my step-dad's garage/workshop thing, which I am apparently slightly better at than expected. We tried to go to a cafe we liked last time, but they were closed. Instead, we had something to eat at this local breakfast stop. All four of us played some cards again, and that evening we went to go see the Rotary Lights. It was sweet. Blair has never experienced an awesome-terrible Jack-In-The-Box taco, so we had dinner there afterward before heading home. The poor dogs freaked out all evening because of the fireworks in the area, and we all kinda went to bed early. I got my midnight kiss, at least.

On New Year's Day, my step dad took us to this local bar/arcade place to play a few rounds of billiards and eat more pizza, and it was really fun. We got coffees after, and then headed home to wait for my mom to get off work. We played more cards all together, and a game called Mexican Train.

The next day, my step dad took us to that cafe we had tried to go to before, this time successfully. After, we got some lunch at Taco Time and then at Blair's request, he drove us around in the hills and valleys along the river, letting us see nature for miles. We all had dinner that night at a place called Zany's (I think) which was a nice time, and then we went for milkshakes after at a place called Sharp's.

And that was it, really. We were dropped at the airport in the early afternoon, and after two plane rides, we arrived back in Minneapolis around midnight and had to make the drive back to La Crosse, getting home around 3am-ish.

While it was a successful trip and it was nice not to have to work or do much of anything other than eat and watch tv and play with animals, I'm glad it wasn't longer. My step dad gets easily frustrated and then veers in the complete opposite direction and gets very drowsy and silly on account of all the weed he smokes for his chronic pain, and my mother is extremely overwhelming with constant anxiety and interrogations. I love my parents but they can be extremely exhausting to be around long term.

Life has returned back to normal post-holiday season. Ho-hum.

Working on finishing up my Fandom Trumps Hate fic that I was forced to ask for an extension on.

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Jan. 6th, 2026 12:44 am
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This subject header precludes an interesting story that, in hindsight, is a lot more amusing than stressful.

Yesterday, we got home from our journey around 3am, and crashed. Around noon, we got up and went to the local Co-Op for lunch and some groceries. Blair texted her mom saying we'd be around to get Velma somewhere around 1:30. No response, but we didn't think of it. We decided we wanted to go to another store first before picking up the dog, and Blair texted her again saying "Hey, it'll be closer to like 4pm probably, there's some more stuff we want to do."

At this time, Blair frowned, texted some more, then looked at me and said "It says my mom is only connected via satellite. My text didn't go through." She decided to try her dad. Same thing. She reached out to her sister to see if she knew where they were, or what was up, or if she could contact them. No dice.

I left the table to go upstairs and use the bathroom. When I got back, Blair was looking very worried. She said "We're packing up our lunch and leaving right now. Something isn't right."

Turns out that not only are both her mom and dad impossible to reach (texts not going through, calls going direct to voicemail) but she checked their phones (the whole family has iphones) and it turns out that her mom, her dad, and the dog, all last pinged about two hours prior. Which means after that point, all devices were either dead or deactivated. The ping? A deserted lot in the middle of nowhere.

It didn't seem great. Why would they have last pinged in an abandoned lot in the middle of nowhere? Maybe it's the true crime fans in us, but we couldn't help but let our minds wander. Were they robbed? Were they lured there? Were they dumped there? Their phones destroyed?

We got in the car and started to make our way to Sparta, where her parents live. We got in touch with her sister and her sister's husband, who live only minutes from their parents, and her sister said they would drive over. We got another call back letting us know that neither mom or dad were there. Purse, gone. Jackets, gone. Dad's car gone, mom's still there. Dog, present and accounted for.

No one knows what to make of any of this. They left of their own accord, but that seemed weird, since they were expecting us to come pick up our dog. We're all on speaker phone; we all four decide to go and meet at the coordinates of this abandoned lot. We're all confused and scared, but like, we need to find their parents?

We're about to head to the lot, when finally a bunch of texts come through.

Of course. The simplest explanation is usually the correct one.

Their mom and dad had been asked by a friend to come help with someone, and had gone. This friend lived in a blind spot; neither of their phones worked there, because they don't have cell service. They don't even get internet up there. Everything is fine. Everyone laughs about it.

But good lord, we all had to admit that all those details put together didn't look good, and that it was weird. I kept telling them, when we showed up to get our dog, "I'm really glad you guys are still alive!"

Anyway. I'll write up my trip later. I just wanted to talk about this first, hah.
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something about both industries... beloved upcoming stars can have everything turn on them overnight. one night you’re cheered for, the next you’re public enemy number one. the emotional whiplash, being held to extreme standards, every mistake amplified… no ordinary person is ever held to that.
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 tw//: brief and vague reference to eating disorder and death 

wanting to do a 2025 recap and a 2026 goals post, but i just find myself annoyingly saying “my father died” in response to every question, and no one wants to read something that’s completely nihilistic. i did find an old little thing i wrote about a month before he passed, though. i was writing about how i changed in 2025, and it definitely had a way more hopeful tone. i remember writing it because i had visited my oldest sister a little before that (before all the fights) for the first time since i was 13, and met up with my nieces (cousins). and whenever i meet with them, it really kicks in that i should probably try harder and better my life and actually start living, because why is the 18-year-old already way more accomplished than me, and i’m such a lewser compared to the both of them

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and well, with what happened after, none of that happened, and if anything i regressed a lot in progress. i also wrote this on tumblr, since i was originally planning on using it as my new vent twt/ public diary, but then i remembered the login info for here and i’ve just been consistently using this instead. i’m kind of glad, too, because i found out a couple months later that my younger sister had been stalking my tumblr, despite me lying and saying i didn’t have an account lol. so yeah, there’s probably going to be a time soon where she finds this, and i really should put all posts on access list, but i don’t know... i like it being public.

like i’m not even trying to be so annoyingly depressive, but i legit can’t think of a single good moment that stuck out in 2025 for me. really, the day the la fires started is the same day my dad was admitted to the hospital, where i was basically told he wouldn’t make it through the night. but he did. he actually got better and was soon put into a care facility, but then things just kept going up and down. he had so many procedures done without them even telling us, and then at the end of april he had to be admitted to a shitty hospital — not his regular one — and as soon as they removed him from icu into med surge, he went downhill. there are so many what ifs if he had just been admitted to his good hospital instead of that one, but i can’t let that question haunt me even more than it already has.

anyways, i’m really trying not to be so negative, but i just don’t have a simple good thing to say about this year, besides that i’m thankful i still have my cats. they’ll be turning 11 on january 17/19 (i can never remember which one, but i’m pretty sure it’s the first date), and they’re as healthy as they can be. well, one of them has been sick with digestive issues since 2024, but no vet has found the problem or cause, so i’ve just been doing what i’ve figured out works, and he’s still strong. i’m thankful to still have them in my life, that i’ve had them since i was a freshman in high school, and that they’re basically the only things tying me to my old life — to my childhood home, to my past with grandpa, and now dad.
 

 

addressing the points now, hockey. still am very into it. actually, just yesterday my sister was all, “why the hell are you still into it?” because it is just so random and kinda unlike me, as i have never cared for sports a day of my life. ok, lie—actually, in 6th grade i had the biggest crush on this guy keith, and he was a lil soccer star/semi prodigy at that age. i should really look him up because i would not be surprised if he played professionally. anyways, i’d try to play soccer at recess because of him, but gave up after like two times because i am that kid who is afraid of the ball and moves away from it rather than toward it, so…

anyways, i honestly think the biggest reason i’m into it (which, another side note: i believe i discussed this in a fandom evolution thing i wrote up ages ago that i never ended up publicizing… i should post it) is that i really got into—and still am embarrassed to admit is the reason why—the stan twt culture. sue me. though this is for a private rant because i think my thoughts would upset people, and i’m aware it’s so gatekeepy, but i do not like the behavior the people in the hr fandom are already emanating …

anyways, i stumbled across hughes brothers twt, and the users are so funny (just the girls and gays… not the straight men ewww), and it just felt nice to be a part of a fandom other than kpop. i’ve been into kpop since 2015, and before that it was one direction and 5sos. this is my first fandom that’s not a band. well, can i even call it a fandom? just a community, i guess. that’s a better word.

and i just loooove sibling dynamics, so imagine my intrigue when i found out there are three brothers in the nhl, two of them being on the same team!! and it has honestly made me like the sport, though i don’t think i’ll ever be the type to watch every single game and scream at the tv about it. like, i do lurk on game threads on the devils subreddit, and most of the time i’m just like… can you guys calm down? i just don’t understand wasting so much energy being so angry and insultive because your team isn’t doing well. isn’t this supposed to be a fun hobby?

maybe this is why i vibe with the baby sharks more, because the team was kinda terrible last season, but the vibes were so fun!!! and go calif! though its norcal...technically i should be rooting for the la kings and the ducks given my location...

 

now onto consuming less txt content. this is true, but i’m still very infatuated with them and very updated through twt. like, i think when i wrote that it gave the vibe that i was slowly, kinda unstanning, and that couldn’t be further from the case. i’m just not up-to-date on their videos, since i still haven’t watched todo… and i don’t really watch live streams, because i just watch clips on twt, besides the ones that seem really funny or cute.

but they are my youth, and for a brief moment i was seriously considering getting a tattoo commemorating the concept trailer for the tomorrow album… but i am so indecisive, and like, what if, god forbid, one of them actually ends up being a terrible person and i just have something permanent on my body linked to them. also, my dad hates tattoos, so i still want to respect his wishes. i don’t think i’ll ever do it… at least not now.


other point… uhm, well, not to get all personal, but fck it, i already am lol, i did relapse... just the opposite way. that one mitski lyric really just describes my journey with this since adolescence… i’ve been big and small and big and small and big and small again.



i can’t even do cute stats since i’ve published zero fics in like the past 8 yrs or so… i think the last public fic was 2018?? though it was a crack group chat mimic au, so i don’t even really count it. the last actually good fic was 2016… i could do a wip stats update, tho i don’t know how to code so it won’t look pretty.

in my closed collections on ao3, i have 24 works in total across 16 different fandoms… though one of them i just put question marks in place because i couldn’t decide who i wanted to be in the crossover. all range from 2% done to about 60%. i really should just finish the ones i’ve been wanting to since the pandemic era, but my writing is just so different compared to now (in some ways… better), and also i think i’m just scared to put myself out there with them.
 

dancing stars

Dec. 31st, 2025 08:15 pm
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cr:plantbasedsav for this beautiful artwork that everyone correlates to txt (and to a lesser degree nct wish) now


mingi and huening kai know each other guys !!! )
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